wahlins said: Could it be the only difference in that part of this discussion is that you look at the government as "them" and I look at it as "us"?
I don't know if I think of the government as "them," but I certainly know that it isn't solely you or me. I would submit that our Founders thought of the government as "them." The Declaration of Independence rails against strong central government. The Articles of Confederation deliberately witheld powers from the federal government. The Constitution is framed with the individual in mind and places limits on the government. It places the individual over the government, not government over the individual. Our nation's founders prized liberty and freedom, which are fundamentally opposite of the communal ownership of government being "us." The US was founded on the premise that each individual is a free being and has the right to be secure in his possessions. Similarly, I think that you should keep as much of your stuff as possible. And I don't discriminate, so I think that Bill Gates and factory workers should have the same right.
The Founders understood, also, that funding government (which is necessary) happens by coercion -- they take your stuff under threat of removing your freedom. They were very cautious about giving power to the government (see Articles of Confederation).
If we want to look at it another way, how much "us" is it when 50% of "us" don't financially contribute to it?
Perhaps we do think differently. I just think that no one has the right to take something from someone else.