10/16/2012 1:10 PM
I remember how exciting it was to be invited by my Superintendent to join them at a meeting to receive a scholarship for school. (Hog Neck, MD crab feast!! Yeh baby!!) It was always an honor to be invited anywhere with the group of people with the positions I strived for. So fired up if it was a beer or fishing after work or a tournament or meeting. I would polish my clubs the night before..couldn't wait…Great stuff! I would do anything to go, spend money I didn't have, sit through seminars, work overtime to make up for it just to be involved with the industry excitement etc…Has anyone had someone turn down an offer to go with the group, (that for me I looked forward to so much) because it may require some effort. Heaven forbid if they may have to buy a round or drive their own vehicle, even when gas is offered? A nice free dinner, a beer or two, the majority of the day away, I guess… just isn't good enough anymore, if it's not perfectly convenient it's not worth it to them. "I'm not going for just one day", but if you get me a hotel room I'll go. Really? Is it today's Kids that have been given too much and spoiled and now expect everything? or simply lack of interest. Wow! Do I need to change my expectations, beat my head against the wall to understand kids (as old as 30 +) of today or continue to boast my "old school, work ethic and morals" or submit to it. Is it bad hires? Maybe I'm getting too old to understand at 44?? Is it supposed to be like this now? Are the times just passing me by? Like my Dad used to say...what's the world coming to with these kids, I miss him terribly, but I'm glad he doesn't have to bear witness. Haha