8/21/2012 9:08 AM
Andrew, one lesson it would be wise to learn is that our industry appears to be quite large but in reality it is rather small and tight knit. I clearly remember a story years ago about a super that was leaving to go into sales. He had been on a chapter board and had constant battles with another super on the board. He made the big mistake of telling this guy what a jerk he thought he was and how now he didn't have to put up with his nonsense. Well, lo and behold, when he picked up his client files for his new sales position, guess who his largest customer turned out to be! That's right, that same super he just blasted. Many of us who have been around for quite some time have seen people change positions and companies and end up working for someone they competed against. Had they bad mouthed that competitor earlier, they would not have obtained that position. Word gets around quickly and it doesn't matter if it is sales, manager, professional or fellow super related. So as a word of advice while you are still a young super, it is best to keep negative comments from becoming public. It really doesn't matter who is right or wrong, you can end up labeled and eliminated from consideration with future opportunities. It is best to keep negative comments to yourself. Sometimes just writing them down a couple of times to vent your anger and then throwing them away is your best approach. I hope you take this to heart. I have been around this industry a long time. Trust me, I know how things work.