11/19/2012 8:11 AM
I think you handled it very properly and professionally. It is all to easy to take a knee-jerk reaction without having the entire story and then regreting the action later. By immediately suspending both employees you gave yourself time to step back and act rationally without endangering other employees or appearing to lack control. Your final actions were based on facts, not emotion, and considered all sides of the issue. By acting rationally, rather than emotionally, you have put your club in the best possible position should the employees mother decide to pursue legal action. At the same time, other employees will appreciate the fairness you have shown in gathering all the facts before final action.
Steve Ravenkamp, CGCS